{"id":16411,"date":"2021-10-18T10:22:16","date_gmt":"2021-10-18T14:22:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=16411"},"modified":"2021-10-18T19:39:14","modified_gmt":"2021-10-18T23:39:14","slug":"why-is-bc-so-cliquey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2021\/10\/18\/why-is-bc-so-cliquey\/","title":{"rendered":"Why is BC so cliquey?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/IMG_1137.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"305\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/IMG_1137.jpg\" alt=\"Why is BC so cliquey? It's so hard to make friends at this school :(\" class=\"wp-image-16403\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/IMG_1137.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/IMG_1137-300x286.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Why is BC so cliquey? It&#8217;s so hard to make friends at this school \ud83d\ude41<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;re having a hard time making friends here. \ud83d\ude41 Every community will be full of sub-communities; humans are tribal that way. Walls both protect and exclude, and groups do the same thing. I&#8217;ve noticed that doors in residence halls close automatically. That&#8217;s kind of isolating all by itself. Maybe you could read or study in a lounge, or prop your door open, and be open to what transpires, including conversation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;re having a hard time making friends here. \ud83d\ude41 Every community will be full of sub-communities; humans are tribal that way. Walls both protect and exclude, and groups do the same thing. I&#8217;ve noticed that doors in residence halls close automatically. That&#8217;s kind of isolating all by itself. Maybe you could read or &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2021\/10\/18\/why-is-bc-so-cliquey\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why is BC so cliquey?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16411"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16411\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16421,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16411\/revisions\/16421"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}