{"id":15767,"date":"2021-08-03T16:16:27","date_gmt":"2021-08-03T20:16:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=15767"},"modified":"2021-08-03T16:37:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-03T20:37:05","slug":"desperately-seeking-a-man5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2021\/08\/03\/desperately-seeking-a-man5\/","title":{"rendered":"Desperately Seeking a Man Hello Sweetheart, it has been a while since we have spoken. I hope your summer is filled with joy. Wall my love, I need your advice. Where can I find a good man?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A man who is willing to let his guard down and let me in. Wall, I have checked dating websites, I volunteer, also I attended church regularly. To no avail no man in sight. Where are they hiding? Do they no longer exist? Wall my love, I am ready for love but I cannot find it. Wall I need you.?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, sweet poster, my heart goes out to you. I wish I had an easy answer. So much really depends on luck and circumstances. It sounds like you are taking many positive steps already. I did a little research and found an interesting article (bit.ly\/DateStance) that suggested having an open stance (physically taking up more space) made one much more approachable as a potential date. And one of my helpers suggested that taking the initiative (asking men for dates &#8211; but yes, first you do have to locate one!) is a good strategy. Best of luck!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A man who is willing to let his guard down and let me in. Wall, I have checked dating websites, I volunteer, also I attended church regularly. To no avail no man in sight. Where are they hiding? Do they no longer exist? Wall my love, I am ready for love but I cannot find &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2021\/08\/03\/desperately-seeking-a-man5\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Desperately Seeking a Man Hello Sweetheart, it has been a while since we have spoken. I hope your summer is filled with joy. Wall my love, I need your advice. Where can I find a good man?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15767"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15767\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15792,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15767\/revisions\/15792"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}