{"id":15061,"date":"2021-01-04T16:28:39","date_gmt":"2021-01-04T21:28:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=15061"},"modified":"2021-01-04T16:28:50","modified_gmt":"2021-01-04T21:28:50","slug":"confused-there-is-this-guy-i-am-attracted-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2021\/01\/04\/confused-there-is-this-guy-i-am-attracted-to\/","title":{"rendered":"Confused: There is this guy I am attracted to&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&#8230;and we have been chatting for a while now (not as regular as I could imagine, but still enough to be counted as an active contact), and from his messages, I some-how think he may like me too. My question is if I think he is attracted to me too because I want it to be so (and reality can be a whole lot different), or if this can be really going somewhere. And what really makes me have many other questions is, that I am male too and am not sure in what way I am attracted to him, so do you mind telling giving me suggestions so that I can make the barrier between friendship and sexual relationship? (Note: I am not planning on being honest with him about this spectrum of my feelings.)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have more questions than answers regarding your attraction to this person, you are right to be cautious about sharing your feelings.\u00a0 I suggest treating this relationship as just a friendship until you are clearer about your feelings (or he clarifies his).\u00a0 The process of building a strong friendship will likely answer many of your questions and will be a great start if the relationship becomes more than just friends.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;and we have been chatting for a while now (not as regular as I could imagine, but still enough to be counted as an active contact), and from his messages, I some-how think he may like me too. My question is if I think he is attracted to me too because I want it to &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2021\/01\/04\/confused-there-is-this-guy-i-am-attracted-to\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Confused: There is this guy I am attracted to&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15061","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15061","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15061"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15061\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15064,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15061\/revisions\/15064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15061"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15061"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15061"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}