{"id":14370,"date":"2020-06-17T12:26:11","date_gmt":"2020-06-17T16:26:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=14370"},"modified":"2020-06-17T16:06:46","modified_gmt":"2020-06-17T20:06:46","slug":"hey-wall-i-have-been-dating-this-older-man-for-a-few-months-but-im-scared-to-tell-him-that-i-love-him-and-care-about-him-deeply-what-do-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/06\/17\/hey-wall-i-have-been-dating-this-older-man-for-a-few-months-but-im-scared-to-tell-him-that-i-love-him-and-care-about-him-deeply-what-do-i-do\/","title":{"rendered":"Hey wall, I have been dating this older man for a few months, but I&#8217;m scared to tell him that I love him and care about him deeply. What do I do?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hey! That is one of the standard romantic problems. You never get a guarantee about how someone will react. If you tell him, you&#8217;ll know. If he&#8217;s not in the same place as you emotionally, that&#8217;s something you should know too. It might be awkward, it might be bad, it might be really great. Those are, unfortunately, the breaks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey! That is one of the standard romantic problems. You never get a guarantee about how someone will react. If you tell him, you&#8217;ll know. If he&#8217;s not in the same place as you emotionally, that&#8217;s something you should know too. It might be awkward, it might be bad, it might be really great. Those &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/06\/17\/hey-wall-i-have-been-dating-this-older-man-for-a-few-months-but-im-scared-to-tell-him-that-i-love-him-and-care-about-him-deeply-what-do-i-do\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Hey wall, I have been dating this older man for a few months, but I&#8217;m scared to tell him that I love him and care about him deeply. What do I do?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14370","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14370","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14370"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14370\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14375,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14370\/revisions\/14375"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14370"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14370"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14370"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}