{"id":14234,"date":"2020-05-13T21:28:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T01:28:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=14234"},"modified":"2020-05-14T17:24:53","modified_gmt":"2020-05-14T21:24:53","slug":"why-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/05\/13\/why-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Why??"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I&#8217;m a boy and I like boys. But I don&#8217;t want to, because I always imagine me loving, marrying and having sons with a woman! And I want this future! I want to be a dad and grow them with their mum, the person I love. But I&#8217;m attracted to male&#8217;s body! And I don&#8217;t want to! What can I do?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We each are who we are, contradictions and all. I&#8217;m sorry your contradictions are troubling you right now. If it&#8217;s any consolation, this wall knows quite a few men with men as partners who are happily raising children, and likewise, women with women as partners doing the same. May you find a path in life that brings you minimal heartbreak and maximal joy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m a boy and I like boys. But I don&#8217;t want to, because I always imagine me loving, marrying and having sons with a woman! And I want this future! I want to be a dad and grow them with their mum, the person I love. But I&#8217;m attracted to male&#8217;s body! And I don&#8217;t &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/05\/13\/why-4\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why??&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14234"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14234\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14242,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14234\/revisions\/14242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}