{"id":14023,"date":"2020-04-03T10:04:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T14:04:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=14023"},"modified":"2020-04-06T09:41:07","modified_gmt":"2020-04-06T13:41:07","slug":"how-do-i-distinguish-between-friends-of-the-good-and-friends-of-the-utility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/04\/03\/how-do-i-distinguish-between-friends-of-the-good-and-friends-of-the-utility\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I distinguish between friends of the ~GOOD~ and friends of the utility?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I&#8217;m afraid I invested in the wrong relationships over the last 3.75 years. \ud83d\ude41<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It sounds like something happened that has broken your trust with friends. ? I&#8217;m really sorry that happened. If some friends are not maintaining contact as much as you&#8217;d like during this crisis, I&#8217;d advise giving them some room. We&#8217;re all reacting to this in different ways. Some are reaching out, others are closing down. As to how to pick friends? Extend trust &amp; see what happens. Sadly, there&#8217;s no formula.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m afraid I invested in the wrong relationships over the last 3.75 years. \ud83d\ude41 It sounds like something happened that has broken your trust with friends. ? I&#8217;m really sorry that happened. If some friends are not maintaining contact as much as you&#8217;d like during this crisis, I&#8217;d advise giving them some room. We&#8217;re all &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/04\/03\/how-do-i-distinguish-between-friends-of-the-good-and-friends-of-the-utility\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How do I distinguish between friends of the ~GOOD~ and friends of the utility?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14023"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14023\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14033,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14023\/revisions\/14033"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}