{"id":13331,"date":"2020-02-18T20:16:31","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T01:16:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=13331"},"modified":"2020-02-19T17:17:32","modified_gmt":"2020-02-19T22:17:32","slug":"how-to-not-get-carried-away-on-a-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/02\/18\/how-to-not-get-carried-away-on-a-date\/","title":{"rendered":"How to not get carried away on a date&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02192020-04-e1582074498887.jpeg\" alt=\"How to not get carried away on a date and enforce my boundaries? We have amazing chemistry but I don't want to slide into the weird zone of friends with benefits.\" class=\"wp-image-13327\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02192020-04-e1582074498887.jpeg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02192020-04-e1582074498887-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02192020-04-e1582074498887-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02192020-04-e1582074498887-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><figcaption>How to not get carried away on a date and enforce my boundaries? We have amazing chemistry but I don&#8217;t want to slide into the weird zone of friends with benefits.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\n\nSounds like you need to have two heart-to-hearts: One with yourself (What do I want? If I want only friendship, dates sound&#8230; ambiguous. If I want more, have I shared that?) and one with the chemistry person, once you&#8217;ve figured out what you want.\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sounds like you need to have two heart-to-hearts: One with yourself (What do I want? If I want only friendship, dates sound&#8230; ambiguous. If I want more, have I shared that?) and one with the chemistry person, once you&#8217;ve figured out what you want.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13331","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13331","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13331"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13331\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13352,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13331\/revisions\/13352"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13331"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13331"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13331"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}