{"id":13111,"date":"2020-02-10T20:00:29","date_gmt":"2020-02-11T01:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=13111"},"modified":"2020-02-11T19:03:27","modified_gmt":"2020-02-12T00:03:27","slug":"how-can-i-love-someone-who-has-trust-issues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/02\/10\/how-can-i-love-someone-who-has-trust-issues\/","title":{"rendered":"How can I love someone who has trust issues? &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02112020-03-e1581382361321.jpeg\" alt=\"How can I love someone who has trust issues? How can I make him believe that I care? I have given everything that I know how to give, but its not enough...he thinks I don't always care about him. I don't know what to do anymore. I love him more than anything. Why can't he see that?\" class=\"wp-image-13102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02112020-03-e1581382361321.jpeg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02112020-03-e1581382361321-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02112020-03-e1581382361321-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/AW02112020-03-e1581382361321-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><figcaption>How can I love someone who has trust issues? How can I make him believe that I care? I have given everything that I know how to give, but its not enough&#8230;he thinks I don&#8217;t always care about him. I don&#8217;t know what to do anymore. I love him more than anything. Why can&#8217;t he see that?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\n\nTrust is the soil of love. Without it, love withers and dies. Real talk: when someone can&#8217;t trust someone who loves them unconditionally, there are two possibilities: one, he doesn&#8217;t love you, or two, something in his life damaged his ability to extend trust. Trust is risky, and takes the willingness to be vulnerable. If he can&#8217;t do that, move on. There&#8217;s a third possibility, and it&#8217;s the hardest one to look in the eye: you don&#8217;t love him unconditionally; you love a version of him that you want him to be.\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trust is the soil of love. Without it, love withers and dies. Real talk: when someone can&#8217;t trust someone who loves them unconditionally, there are two possibilities: one, he doesn&#8217;t love you, or two, something in his life damaged his ability to extend trust. Trust is risky, and takes the willingness to be vulnerable. If &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/02\/10\/how-can-i-love-someone-who-has-trust-issues\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How can I love someone who has trust issues? &#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13111"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13111\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13135,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13111\/revisions\/13135"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}