{"id":12497,"date":"2020-01-23T20:15:07","date_gmt":"2020-01-24T01:15:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=12497"},"modified":"2020-01-24T15:13:41","modified_gmt":"2020-01-24T20:13:41","slug":"why-do-i-keep-falling-for-the-same-type-of-guy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/01\/23\/why-do-i-keep-falling-for-the-same-type-of-guy\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do I keep falling for the same type of guy?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01242020-05.jpg\" alt=\"Why do I keep falling for the same type of guy?\" class=\"wp-image-12490\" width=\"375\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01242020-05.jpg 500w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01242020-05-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01242020-05-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01242020-05-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><figcaption>Why do I keep falling for the same type of guy?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I gather that this type of guy is not the right type of guy for you. You can start by making an appointment with University Counseling, or find a private therapist to help you work through this pattern. And write down a list of the most important qualities in a good partner\/friend for you. Also think about that boy from your younger days who you really liked in a platonic way &#8212; what was he like? Would someone like him appeal to you today, romantically? Consider mixing up your BC social life a bit. You may encounter some new faces that will surprise you.&nbsp; It&#8217;s a tough process, but good to face if you know you&#8217;re on the wrong path.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I gather that this type of guy is not the right type of guy for you. You can start by making an appointment with University Counseling, or find a private therapist to help you work through this pattern. And write down a list of the most important qualities in a good partner\/friend for you. Also &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/01\/23\/why-do-i-keep-falling-for-the-same-type-of-guy\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why do I keep falling for the same type of guy?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12497","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12497"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12497\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12509,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12497\/revisions\/12509"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}