{"id":12473,"date":"2020-01-22T20:47:01","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T01:47:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=12473"},"modified":"2020-01-27T20:18:53","modified_gmt":"2020-01-28T01:18:53","slug":"this-girl-im-seeing-likes-to-slap-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/01\/22\/this-girl-im-seeing-likes-to-slap-me\/","title":{"rendered":"This girl I&#8217;m seeing likes to slap me &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01232020-02.jpg\" alt=\"This girl I'm seeing likes to slap me, but I don't like it. What should I do?\" class=\"wp-image-12468\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01232020-02.jpg 500w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01232020-02-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01232020-02-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/AW01232020-02-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><figcaption>This girl I&#8217;m seeing likes to slap me, but I don&#8217;t like it. What should I do?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you haven&#8217;t done so already, I would suggest telling her you don&#8217;t like being slapped. Respecting each other&#8217;s boundaries is a pretty fundamental part of maintaining a healthy relationship.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/012720-1.jpg\" alt=\"If the genders were reversed that would be domestic violence\/abuse &amp; people would say to dump them\/make it very clear to them not to do it again\" class=\"wp-image-12564\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/012720-1.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/012720-1-300x281.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><figcaption>If the genders were reversed that would be domestic violence\/abuse &amp; people would say to dump them\/make it very clear to them not to do it again<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You have a good point there. If you feel threatened by the slapping, and\/or she won&#8217;t stop after you&#8217;ve asked her to, then it does become more of a domestic violence issue. Find BC and Boston help\/resources here: <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BCPartnerAbuse\">bit.ly\/BCPartnerAbuse<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you haven&#8217;t done so already, I would suggest telling her you don&#8217;t like being slapped. Respecting each other&#8217;s boundaries is a pretty fundamental part of maintaining a healthy relationship. You have a good point there. If you feel threatened by the slapping, and\/or she won&#8217;t stop after you&#8217;ve asked her to, then it does &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/01\/22\/this-girl-im-seeing-likes-to-slap-me\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;This girl I&#8217;m seeing likes to slap me &#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12473","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12473","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12473"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12473\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12574,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12473\/revisions\/12574"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}