{"id":12327,"date":"2020-01-12T20:42:57","date_gmt":"2020-01-13T01:42:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=12327"},"modified":"2020-01-13T18:29:10","modified_gmt":"2020-01-13T23:29:10","slug":"how-to-break-up-with-a-girl-without-hurting-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/01\/12\/how-to-break-up-with-a-girl-without-hurting-her\/","title":{"rendered":"How to break up with a girl without hurting her?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"481\" height=\"519\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/20200112_203213_2.jpg\" alt=\"How to break up with a girl without hurting her?\" class=\"wp-image-12326\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/20200112_203213_2.jpg 481w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/20200112_203213_2-278x300.jpg 278w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 481px) 100vw, 481px\" \/><figcaption>How to break up with a girl without hurting her?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\n\nI know you don&#8217;t want to hurt her, but pain is an inevitable part of breakups for both parties. Instead of seeking the impossible (no pain), acknowledge the pain and talk through it. You&#8217;ll both need time to process; be ready for a wide range of emotional responses both from yourself and from her. Keep statements focused on &#8220;I,&#8221; (I&#8217;m feeling ____ right now.) Be strong.\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you don&#8217;t want to hurt her, but pain is an inevitable part of breakups for both parties. Instead of seeking the impossible (no pain), acknowledge the pain and talk through it. You&#8217;ll both need time to process; be ready for a wide range of emotional responses both from yourself and from her. Keep &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2020\/01\/12\/how-to-break-up-with-a-girl-without-hurting-her\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How to break up with a girl without hurting her?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12327","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12327","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12327"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12327\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12329,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12327\/revisions\/12329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12327"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12327"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12327"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}