{"id":12176,"date":"2019-12-16T20:11:01","date_gmt":"2019-12-17T01:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=12176"},"modified":"2019-12-17T16:22:04","modified_gmt":"2019-12-17T21:22:04","slug":"i-just-got-an-amazing-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/12\/16\/i-just-got-an-amazing-job\/","title":{"rendered":"I just got an amazing job&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/AW12162019-02-e1576544749450.jpeg\" alt=\"I just got an amazing job but my brother who graduated two years ago still hasn't found one and he's super down about it. how can I tell him that I got my job w\/out making him sad!\" class=\"wp-image-12168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/AW12162019-02-e1576544749450.jpeg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/AW12162019-02-e1576544749450-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/AW12162019-02-e1576544749450-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/AW12162019-02-e1576544749450-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><figcaption>I just got an amazing job but my brother who graduated two years ago still hasn&#8217;t found one and he&#8217;s super down about it. how can I tell him that I got my job w\/out making him sad!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s really nice that you are sensitive to your brother&#8217;s employment struggles. I suggest that you tone down your excitement (just a little) when you tell him, and follow his lead whether he would like to discuss his own job search or would just like to celebrate yours without drawing comparisons. Don&#8217;t worry too much, though &#8212; he&#8217;s your brother and will be happy for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s really nice that you are sensitive to your brother&#8217;s employment struggles. I suggest that you tone down your excitement (just a little) when you tell him, and follow his lead whether he would like to discuss his own job search or would just like to celebrate yours without drawing comparisons. Don&#8217;t worry too much, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/12\/16\/i-just-got-an-amazing-job\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I just got an amazing job&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[946,323],"class_list":["post-12176","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-career","tag-brother","tag-jobs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12176","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12176"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12176\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12208,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12176\/revisions\/12208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12176"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12176"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12176"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}