{"id":1192,"date":"2018-02-28T19:53:38","date_gmt":"2018-03-01T00:53:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/answerwall.domain.bc.edu\/?p=1192"},"modified":"2018-03-01T11:45:37","modified_gmt":"2018-03-01T16:45:37","slug":"why-do-all-the-girls-hug-each-other-all-the-time-i-like-a-hug-with-my-bros-but-they-dont-i-like-a-hug-please","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/02\/28\/why-do-all-the-girls-hug-each-other-all-the-time-i-like-a-hug-with-my-bros-but-they-dont-i-like-a-hug-please\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do all the girls hug each other all the time. I like a hug with my bros but they don&#8217;t. I like a hug please :("},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_1188\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1188\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/022818-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1188\" src=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/022818-3-300x284.jpg\" alt=\"Why do all the girls hug each other all the time. I like a hug with my bros but they don't. I like a hug please :(\" width=\"300\" height=\"284\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1188\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Why do all the girls hug each other all the time. I like a hug with my bros but they don&#8217;t. I like a hug please \ud83d\ude41<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I&#8217;ve never understood human behavior all that well. If I had arms, the first thing I&#8217;d do is hug everyone. Well, OK, the first thing I&#8217;d do is ask. Maybe you could carry around a few of these children&#8217;s books on hugging as a way to instruct your bros: <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BC-hugging\">bit.ly\/BC-hugging<\/a>. But it&#8217;s all in how you frame it. Maybe &#8220;Bro, how about a hug?&#8221; would work better than &#8220;Bro, time for snuggle wuggle.&#8221; You also might be interested in reading about changing notions of masculinity, such as bell hooks&#8217; <em>The Will to Change<\/em> (O&#8217;Neill Library HQ1090 .H66 2004 &#8211; currently unavailable, click &#8220;request book&#8221; to get a copy through interlibrary loan).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never understood human behavior all that well. If I had arms, the first thing I&#8217;d do is hug everyone. Well, OK, the first thing I&#8217;d do is ask. Maybe you could carry around a few of these children&#8217;s books on hugging as a way to instruct your bros: bit.ly\/BC-hugging. But it&#8217;s all in how &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/02\/28\/why-do-all-the-girls-hug-each-other-all-the-time-i-like-a-hug-with-my-bros-but-they-dont-i-like-a-hug-please\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why do all the girls hug each other all the time. I like a hug with my bros but they don&#8217;t. I like a hug please :(&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[160],"class_list":["post-1192","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships","tag-hug"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1192","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1192"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1192\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1202,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1192\/revisions\/1202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1192"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1192"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1192"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}