{"id":11401,"date":"2019-11-11T20:10:14","date_gmt":"2019-11-12T01:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=11401"},"modified":"2019-11-13T17:19:24","modified_gmt":"2019-11-13T22:19:24","slug":"my-professor-just-asked-me-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/11\/11\/my-professor-just-asked-me-out\/","title":{"rendered":"my professor just asked me out&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11122019-02.jpg\" alt=\"hi answer wall, my professor just asked me out (like when the semester ends) - is it okay if I say yes?? I won't have him as a professor again at BC.\" class=\"wp-image-11390\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11122019-02.jpg 500w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11122019-02-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11122019-02-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11122019-02-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><figcaption>hi answer wall, my professor just asked me out (like when the semester ends) &#8211; is it okay if I say yes?? I won&#8217;t have him as a professor again at BC. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It is not okay for the faculty member to ask you out. BC policy states: &#8220;The University prohibits any faculty member or other employee from engaging in a romantic or sexual relationship or in any romantic or sexual conduct with any student currently enrolled as an undergraduate at Boston College.&#8221; If you&#8217;re a grad student, you can have a relationship with a faculty member in another department or school, but as you are taking a class with this person, that exception probably doesn&#8217;t apply either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11132019-02.jpg.jpeg\" alt=\"OOF.\" class=\"wp-image-11425\" width=\"323\" height=\"322\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11132019-02.jpg.jpeg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11132019-02.jpg-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11132019-02.jpg-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/AW11132019-02.jpg-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 323px) 100vw, 323px\" \/><figcaption>OOF.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"521\" height=\"479\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/20191113_0552142.jpg\" alt=\"YIKES\" class=\"wp-image-11430\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/20191113_0552142.jpg 521w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/20191113_0552142-300x276.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 521px) 100vw, 521px\" \/><figcaption>YIKES<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\n\nYupppp\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is not okay for the faculty member to ask you out. BC policy states: &#8220;The University prohibits any faculty member or other employee from engaging in a romantic or sexual relationship or in any romantic or sexual conduct with any student currently enrolled as an undergraduate at Boston College.&#8221; If you&#8217;re a grad student, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/11\/11\/my-professor-just-asked-me-out\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;my professor just asked me out&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11401","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11401","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11401"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11401\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11452,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11401\/revisions\/11452"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11401"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}