{"id":10474,"date":"2019-10-07T06:18:50","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T10:18:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=10474"},"modified":"2019-10-07T09:46:15","modified_gmt":"2019-10-07T13:46:15","slug":"my-high-school-crush-whom-i-was-too-nervous-to-ask-out-got-touchy-feely-with-me-at-a-recent-party-and-seemed-really-into-me-though-she-has-had-a-boyfriend-for-the-past-2-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/10\/07\/my-high-school-crush-whom-i-was-too-nervous-to-ask-out-got-touchy-feely-with-me-at-a-recent-party-and-seemed-really-into-me-though-she-has-had-a-boyfriend-for-the-past-2-years\/","title":{"rendered":"My high school crush, whom I was too nervous to ask out, got touchy-feely with me at a recent party and seemed really into me, though she has had a boyfriend for the past 2 years."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"525\" height=\"475\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20191007_050652_2.jpg\" alt=\"My high school crush, whom I was too nervous to ask out, got touchy-feely with me at a recent party and seemed really into me, though she has had a boyfriend for the past 2 years. What should I do? I don't want to invade on her relationship, but I still really like her.\" class=\"wp-image-10463\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20191007_050652_2.jpg 525w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20191007_050652_2-300x271.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 525px) 100vw, 525px\" \/><figcaption>My high school crush, whom I was too nervous to ask out, got touchy-feely with me at a recent party and seemed really into me, though she has had a boyfriend for the past 2 years. What should I do? I don&#8217;t want to invade on her relationship, but I still really like her.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Be straightforward about this. Your reasons and language about it are good: &#8220;I really like you, but you have been with {boyfriend} for 2 years; I don&#8217;t want to invade your relationship. What are your thoughts?&#8221;  Be prepared to find out she doesn&#8217;t think there is anything wrong with having a boyfriend and having some casual fun with you.  In that case, you need to decide what your stance on that is. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Be straightforward about this. Your reasons and language about it are good: &#8220;I really like you, but you have been with {boyfriend} for 2 years; I don&#8217;t want to invade your relationship. What are your thoughts?&#8221; Be prepared to find out she doesn&#8217;t think there is anything wrong with having a boyfriend and having some &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/10\/07\/my-high-school-crush-whom-i-was-too-nervous-to-ask-out-got-touchy-feely-with-me-at-a-recent-party-and-seemed-really-into-me-though-she-has-had-a-boyfriend-for-the-past-2-years\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;My high school crush, whom I was too nervous to ask out, got touchy-feely with me at a recent party and seemed really into me, though she has had a boyfriend for the past 2 years.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[217],"class_list":["post-10474","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships","tag-infidelity"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10474"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10474\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10504,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10474\/revisions\/10504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}