{"id":10244,"date":"2019-09-30T15:51:01","date_gmt":"2019-09-30T19:51:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=10244"},"modified":"2019-09-30T15:52:34","modified_gmt":"2019-09-30T19:52:34","slug":"i-was-in-a-toxic-relationship-that-has-ruin-my-life-in-high-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/09\/30\/i-was-in-a-toxic-relationship-that-has-ruin-my-life-in-high-school\/","title":{"rendered":"I was in a toxic relationship that has ruin my life in high school?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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I was in a toxic relationship that has ruin my life in high school? We were both going to come here, but then she cheated on me. Worse of all, the guy was bad looking, which made me insecure about myself! I made a deal to not date anyone in college for 2 yrs! And the year is almost approaching! When I talk<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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to a beautiful girl, I instantly judge her as a slut in the back of my head! And I know I shouldn\u2019t but seeing girls today & even now in our campus cheat on their bf further proves to me that maybe love doesn\u2019t exist! Even body count seems important to me, how can I love my future wife knowing that<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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she may have had 10 partners! I feel like I\u2019m more nice to the unattractive girls bc\u2019s I feel secure that they don\u2019t cheat & are loyal people. Can anyone help!\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I’m sorry someone you loved abused your trust. It can be hard to rebuild enough trust to connect with other people after an event like that. I recommend talking to someone at Counseling Services (bit.ly\/BC-counseling) or Campus Ministry (bit.ly\/bc-pastoral-counseling) to help you rebuild the capacity for trust and creating loving, nurturing, and mutually-beneficial relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I’m sorry someone you loved abused your trust. It can be hard to rebuild enough trust to connect with other people after an event like that. I recommend talking to someone at Counseling Services (bit.ly\/BC-counseling) or Campus Ministry (bit.ly\/bc-pastoral-counseling) to help you rebuild the capacity for trust and creating loving, nurturing, and mutually-beneficial relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10244"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10244\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10247,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10244\/revisions\/10247"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}