…how can i get into T20 law school? …

I have Cs, Bs and As, how can i get into T20 law school? =( Including this semester I have 3 semesters left to go, what should I do? Boosting up GPA is hard =(
I have Cs, Bs and As, how can i get into T20 law school? =( Including this semester I have 3 semesters left to go, what should I do? Boosting up GPA is hard =(

Boosting up GPA is hard, but I’m sure you can do this. Take advantage of all the help on offer: CFLC (tutoring & academic coaching: bit.ly/connors), meet with all of your professors, create study groups with other students, find productive places to study in BC Libraries, work with librarians on all of your research papers (library.bc.edu/ask-a-librarian), and then study like mad for the LSAT’s. You’ve got this!

What should I get my girl-friend for her B-day?

What should I get my girl-friend for her B-day?
What should I get my girl-friend for her B-day?

Make a list of her likes and hobbies. Try to come up with a couple of items or experiences that line up with each of those, then narrow it down to one thing that fits your budget and the occasion. Don’t forget to wrap it and while a card isn’t completely necessary, I bet she’d like one. Keep adding to the list as stuff comes up throughout the year, so you’re prepared for the gift-giving holidays to come!

Hey Wall, So my parents are getting a divorce.

Hey Wall, So my parents are getting a divorce. I know. Really sucks. But the real problem is this: Should I live with my mom or my dad? My mom got our house, so my dad got an apartment that’s pretty crappy. But I like my dad
Hey Wall, So my parents are getting a divorce. I know. Really sucks. But the real problem is this: Should I live with my mom or my dad? My mom got our house, so my dad got an apartment that’s pretty crappy. But I like my dad
better. So should I live in his crappy apartment just because I love him? On one other note, my mom’s a better cook than my dad. So should I go with her because of the better house and food and not because I like her? Oh,
better. So should I live in his crappy apartment just because I love him? On one other note, my mom’s a better cook than my dad. So should I go with her because of the better house and food and not because I like her? Oh,
also, my annoying little brother already chose to live with my mom. So I don’t like my mom OR my brother, I would just be living w/those two for the good food and nice house. That seems a little selfish to me, don’t you think, wall? But this means that if I lived with my dad,
also, my annoying little brother already chose to live with my mom. So I don’t like my mom OR my brother, I would just be living w/those two for the good food and nice house. That seems a little selfish to me, don’t you think, wall? But this means that if I lived with my dad,
I would be happier without my mom and brother, but the house and food is bad. What do you think, wall? Oh, also, wall! I have this girlfriend, and she’s, like, super rich. I recently proposed to her, but I’m starting to think deeper.
I would be happier without my mom and brother, but the house and food is bad. What do you think, wall? Oh, also, wall! I have this girlfriend, and she’s, like, super rich. I recently proposed to her, but I’m starting to think deeper.
Do I really love her? Or am I just marrying her for her money. Wall, marriage is a big step. How do you now if you love somebody? Do you just wake up one day and realize it? Or is it more complicated than that? I am so confused, wall! I also feel
Do I really love her? Or am I just marrying her for her money. Wall, marriage is a big step. How do you now if you love somebody? Do you just wake up one day and realize it? Or is it more complicated than that? I am so confused, wall! I also feel
really guilty, because I’m cheating on her with this other guy. I think I like him more than my rich gf, but I’m not really sure. He’s vegan and Buddhist. Now he gets me wondering, should I become vegan? Should I switch from orthodox Jewish to be a buddhist?
really guilty, because I’m cheating on her with this other guy. I think I like him more than my rich gf, but I’m not really sure. He’s vegan and Buddhist. Now he gets me wondering, should I become vegan? Should I switch from orthodox Jewish to be a buddhist?
My mom’s Jewish, so should I switch religions and give up my family for my boyfriend? Sounds like a good idea to me, but what do you think, Wall? We’ve been dating for about two weeks, so I think it’s time to make some changes. I’m also worried
My mom’s Jewish, so should I switch religions and give up my family for my boyfriend? Sounds like a good idea to me, but what do you think, Wall? We’ve been dating for about two weeks, so I think it’s time to make some changes. I’m also worried
about what my family with think when I introduce my boyfriend to them. Maybe I should invite him for Thanksgiving, Wall, b/c its coming up. Although, he would not be able to eat anything, because he’s vegan. I’ve also been wondering, what is the meaning of life? And am I enough? I don’t know if I’m enough for
about what my family with think when I introduce my boyfriend to them. Maybe I should invite him for Thanksgiving, Wall, b/c its coming up. Although, he would not be able to eat anything, because he’s vegan. I’ve also been wondering, what is the meaning of life? And am I enough? I don’t know if I’m enough for
my boyfriend. He’s pressuring me into doing something very serious, something I don’t think I’m ready for because I’ve never done it before. He wants me to become vegan. I feel really bad, because I eat cheeseburgers behind his back. Should I
my boyfriend. He’s pressuring me into doing something very serious, something I don’t think I’m ready for because I’ve never done it before. He wants me to become vegan. I feel really bad, because I eat cheeseburgers behind his back. Should I
behind his back. Should I tell him? I really love cheeseburgers, and I can’t give them up. Wait! Is it possible to be a vegan that still eats cheeseburgers? This gets me thinking that I might need to break up with him. Or should I just be
behind his back. Should I tell him? I really love cheeseburgers, and I can’t give them up. Wait! Is it possible to be a vegan that still eats cheeseburgers? This gets me thinking that I might need to break up with him. Or should I just be
vegan and buddhist to make him happy, and give up on my family? Okay, just one more thing. My dog pooped in my bed the other day. Wall, where do you think is the best place
vegan and buddhist to make him happy, and give up on my family? Okay, just one more thing. My dog pooped in my bed the other day. Wall, where do you think is the best place
to get good, cheap detergent around here? I don’t have any and I’ve been wearing the same underwear for a week. I’ve also been sleeping on the floor. So I could really use an answer to the detergent question.
to get good, cheap detergent around here? I don’t have any and I’ve been wearing the same underwear for a week. I’ve also been sleeping on the floor. So I could really use an answer to the detergent question.

You have an overwhelming number of important questions; you probably feel more than a little overwhelmed. I recommend talking many of these issues through with someone who can be both sympathetic and objective, and help you determine priorities for addressing and making sense of them. Counseling Services would be a good place to start: bit.ly/BC-counseling. For the dog poop I recommend any detergent plus oxy-clean or bleach, both available at any local grocery or drug store.

Girl WTF
Girl WTF

It can certainly be startling to see someone else’s internal monologue. Many of us are walking (or standing) around with such internal voices; it takes bravery to make it public, even anonymously, because you never know how people will respond. I was a little surprised myself, but it’s never a mistake to be compassionate.

I was in a toxic relationship that has ruin my life in high school?

I was in a toxic relationship that has ruin my life in high school? We were both going to come here, but then she cheated on me. Worse of all, the guy was bad looking, which made me insecure about myself! I made a deal to not date anyone in college for 2 yrs! And the year is almost approaching! When I talk
I was in a toxic relationship that has ruin my life in high school? We were both going to come here, but then she cheated on me. Worse of all, the guy was bad looking, which made me insecure about myself! I made a deal to not date anyone in college for 2 yrs! And the year is almost approaching! When I talk
to a beautiful girl, I instantly judge her as a slut in the back of my head! And I know I shouldn’t but seeing girls today & even now in our campus cheat on their bf further proves to me that maybe love doesn’t exist! Even body count seems important to me, how can I love my future wife knowing that
to a beautiful girl, I instantly judge her as a slut in the back of my head! And I know I shouldn’t but seeing girls today & even now in our campus cheat on their bf further proves to me that maybe love doesn’t exist! Even body count seems important to me, how can I love my future wife knowing that
she may have had 10 partners! I feel like I’m more nice to the unattractive girls bc’s I feel secure that they don’t cheat & are loyal people. Can anyone help!
she may have had 10 partners! I feel like I’m more nice to the unattractive girls bc’s I feel secure that they don’t cheat & are loyal people. Can anyone help!

I’m sorry someone you loved abused your trust. It can be hard to rebuild enough trust to connect with other people after an event like that. I recommend talking to someone at Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling) or Campus Ministry (bit.ly/bc-pastoral-counseling) to help you rebuild the capacity for trust and creating loving, nurturing, and mutually-beneficial relationships.

How to get rid of pimples =( =(

How to get rid of pimples =( =(
How to get rid of pimples =( =(

Wash your face! Too many people think just a splash of water in the morning is enough, but most dermatologists recommend a gental daily cleanser like CeraVe or Cetaphil. Gental exfoliation may help too, using a scrub once or twice a week or spot treating with salicylic acid. But before trying anything harsher, definitely check in with a licensed dermatologist. They can help you find a more personalized routine, since as a wall I’ve only got a theoretical knowledge of how skin works.

Do I drink too much?

Do I drink too much?
Do I drink too much?

If you’re concerned, it’s probably worth looking into further. The Office of Health Promotion has some useful info to determine if you have a problem: http://bit.ly/BCDrinking, and then you can follow up with them – they have a variety of programs to help.

I debated this with my friends, but we need your help.

I debated this with my friends, but we need your help. Who is the bigger artists: Big Sean or Frank Ocean?
I debated this with my friends, but we need your help. Who is the bigger artists: Big Sean or Frank Ocean?

Album score is Sean 4 (3 platinum, 1 gold) v Frank 3 (3 platinum, one of which won a Grammy). Frank’s got more number ones. So I’d say on that score, Frank by a nose. But it really comes down to which *you* like. Unlike sports, music isn’t really a competition.

Can you fix my lower back?

Can you fix my lower back?
Can you fix my lower back?

I’m sorry, but no. I’m a Wall. You could probably benefit from physical therapy. I recommend seeing a doctor, and finding out all possible options. You have my deep sympathy. You know the first thing proto-humans said when they walked upright, right? Ow, my back!

Stressed, and feeling alone…

Stressed, and feeling alone... who is around like me
Stressed, and feeling alone… who is around like me

I feel lonely sometimes late at night when there’s nobody around, and the stress of holding up this building sometimes gets me down. It’s good to reach out when that happens. If you can’t find someone here, look up some old friends and give them a call. I’m sure they’d love to hear from you.

Where is the warmest place to study on campus?

Where is the warmest place to study on campus?
Where is the warmest place to study on campus?

I asked one of my helpers, and she said that the vestibules as you enter Stokes N are both very toasty, and surprisingly nice places to sit and concentrate. The warmest place she’s found (she’s done a lot of research on this) is in the cloak room at the Burns Library, but it would be a terrible study space. Same for the warmest spot she’s found in O’Neill; the level 2 women’s restroom!`

How do I remove spirits from a home?

How do I remove spirits from a home? The house my family is buying has had 2 people die in it ( wife stabbed and shot, husband killed self in front of kids)
How do I remove spirits from a home? The house my family is buying has had 2 people die in it ( wife stabbed and shot, husband killed self in front of kids)

That is so sad, and I can see how it would be upsetting to live in a setting where such a terrible thing has happened. Methods of removing spirits vary widely between cultures and faiths. I would approach your spiritual advisor and ask what, if anything, is the appropriate action.

Idk what went wrong in my life.

Idk what went wrong in my life. Grades/social are fine. But I'm feeling extremely insecure.
Idk what went wrong in my life. Grades/social are fine. But I’m feeling extremely insecure.

Almost everyone feels that way sometimes. But if you feel that way often, or it’s interfering with your ability to enjoy life and do things, I’d have a talk with the folks at University Counseling (bit.ly/BC-counseling) and see if they can’t find some strategies to make you feel more secure and happier about your life.